Hello, Wine and Dime listeners! Thank you once again for joining the show. Today, we are diving into a topic that is often overlooked but incredibly important in estate planning: The Five Wishes. This document, created by the organization Five Wishes, is the first living will that addresses not only your medical wishes but also your personal, emotional, and spiritual needs. It allows you to choose the person who will make healthcare decisions for you if you are unable to do so yourself.
Key Takeaways:
The Five Wishes is a comprehensive living will that addresses personal, emotional, and spiritual needs, in addition to medical wishes.
The document allows individuals to choose a healthcare decision-maker and specify their medical treatment preferences.
It covers how individuals want to be treated, what they want loved ones to know about them, and their funeral wishes.
Distribute copies of the Five Wishes to relevant parties and keep the original in a safe place at home.
Aging with dignity involves ensuring that family members are aware of an individual's final wishes.
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Now, let's get back to the topic at hand: The Five Wishes. This document is a comprehensive living will that covers various aspects of your healthcare and end-of-life wishes. It was created with the help of the American Bar Association Commission on Law and Aging and is available in 29 languages.
The Five Wishes addresses five key areas:
1. Choosing a Healthcare Decision-Maker
The first wish allows you to designate the person you want to make healthcare decisions for you if you are unable to do so yourself. This person, known as your healthcare proxy or agent, will have the authority to make medical decisions on your behalf. It's crucial to choose someone you trust and who understands your values and wishes.
2. Defining Your Medical Treatment Preferences
The second wish focuses on your preferences for medical treatment. It allows you to specify the kind of medical treatment you want or don't want in various scenarios. You can outline your preferences for pain management, comfort, and life-supporting treatments. The document provides options for you to be as specific as you'd like, ensuring that your wishes are known and respected.
3. Ensuring Comfort and Dignity
The third wish centers around your desire for comfort and dignity. You can express how you want to be cared for, including specific requests such as having pictures of loved ones in your room, being treated with kindness and cheerfulness, or even being called by a particular name or nickname. This wish allows you to define how you want people to treat you during your healthcare journey.
4. Communicating Your Personal Wishes
The fourth wish is an opportunity for you to communicate your personal wishes to your loved ones. You can express forgiveness, love, and any other sentiments you want your family and friends to know. Additionally, you can outline your preferences for your body after death, such as burial, cremation, or donation. This wish ensures that your loved ones have a clear understanding of your final wishes.
5. Funeral and Memorial Service Preferences
The fifth and final wish covers your preferences for funeral and memorial services. You can specify whether you want a burial or cremation, provide details about your desired memorial service, and even mention how you want to be remembered. This wish allows you to leave a lasting impression and ensure that your funeral arrangements align with your wishes.
The Five Wishes document is easy to use, with checkboxes, circles, and spaces for you to fill in your specific preferences. Once you sign the document, it becomes legally binding and supersedes any previous living will or durable power of attorney for healthcare that you may have had. It's important to distribute copies of the document to your healthcare proxy, family members, doctors, and anyone else involved in your care.
By completing The Five Wishes, you can age with dignity and have peace of mind knowing that your wishes will be respected. It also relieves your loved ones of the burden of making difficult decisions without knowing your preferences.
In conclusion, estate planning is not just about financial matters; it also involves making decisions about your healthcare and end-of-life wishes. The Five Wishes provides a comprehensive framework for addressing these important aspects of your life. By utilizing this document, you can ensure that your wishes are known and respected, and you can spare your loved ones from unnecessary stress and conflict during difficult times.
I encourage you to visit the Five Wishes website or reach out to us at info@rootedpg.com to obtain a copy of this invaluable document. Take the time to complete The Five Wishes and have open conversations with your loved ones about your wishes. It may not be the most enjoyable topic to discuss, but it is an essential part of planning for the future. Remember, aging with dignity is a gift we can give ourselves and our loved ones.
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